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Looking at the other person’s point of view and arousing in him an eager want for something is not to be construed as manipulating that person so that he will do something that is only for your benefit and his detriment. Each party should gain from the negotiation.

— Dale Carnegie How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936)

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Many people get a sense of savage satisfaction out of denouncing those who are better educated than they are or more successful.

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.

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The average person is more interested in their own name than in all the other names in the world put together.

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You can make more friends in two months by being interested in them, than in two years by making them interested in you.

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