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Being able to feel safe with other people is probably the single most important aspect of mental health; safe connections are fundamental to meaningful and satisfying lives.

— Bessel van der Kolk The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (2014)

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One thing is certain: Yelling at someone who is already out of control can only lead to further dysregulation.

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A major challenge in recovering from trauma remains being able to achieve a state of total relaxation and safe surrender.

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Scared animals return home, regardless of whether home is safe or frightening.

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It takes enormous trust and courage to allow yourself to remember.

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No matter how much insight and understanding we develop, the rational brain is basically impotent to talk the emotional brain out of its own reality.

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