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Wilhelm Stekel Quotes

1868–1940 Austria

Wilhelm Stekel (18 March 1868 – 25 June 1940) was an Austrian psychologist and psychoanalyst.

Austria
Non-fiction authors
Physicians
Psychologists

Random Wilhelm Stekel quote

12 quotes

Love at first sight is a revival of an infantile impression. The first love object reappears in a different disguise.

The Autobiography of Wilhelm Stekel (1950)

Candor is always a double-edged sword; it may heal or it may separate.

Marriage at the Crossroads (1931)

Every resistance reveals the ego (one's own) in conflict with another.

Obedience is the giving up of the resistance; obstinacy the setting up of fresh resistances.

Defiance is the reaction against activity (aggression) of the environment.

In reality, we are still children. We want to find a playmate for our thoughts and feelings.

The Book Of Friendship: Making Life Better (2001)

Many an attack of depression is nothing but the expression of regret at having to be virtuous.

Sigmund Says : And Other Psychotherapists' Quotes (2006)

People who do not understand themselves have a craving for understanding — a thing which is rather surmised and never spoken than known and clothed in words.

Marriage at the Crossroads (1931)

Truth is not always the best basis for happiness. There are certain lies which may constitute a far better and more secure foundation of happiness. There are people who perish when their eyes are opened.

The Autobiography of Wilhelm Stekel (1950)

Anxiety is fear of one's self.

Beyond the Blues: Treating Depression One Day at a Time (2000)

Experience shows that this transference very soon becomes the source of resistance. Love is only a seeking for love in return, Do, ut des [I give, that thou shalt give]. If the patient notices that love is not given in return or that it has not reached that degree which he expected, defiance enters in place of the love, which in turn manifests itself as active resistance.

The mark of the immature man is that he wants to die nobly for a cause, while the mark of a mature man is that he wants to live humbly for one.

Misattributed a character in J. D. Salinger's The Catcher in the Rye (1951)

Attribution

Quotes and notes from Wikiquote: Wilhelm Stekel (page history), available under CC BY-SA 4.0.