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If you want to be loved, be lovable.

— Ovid

Ut ameris, amabilis esto.

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Book II, line 107 | Compare: Si vis amari, ama. ("If you wish to be loved, love"), attributed to Hecato by Seneca the Younger in Epistulae Morales ad Lucilium, Epistle IX

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To be loved, be lovable.

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