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Japanese affection is not uttered in words; it scarcely appears even in the tone of voice; it is chiefly shown in acts of exquisite courtesy and kindness.

— Lafcadio Hearn Of the Eternal Feminine (1893)

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Source: "Of the Eternal Feminine" (1893), cited from Out of the East; and, Kokoro (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 1922) p. 79.
Work: Of the Eternal Feminine, 1893
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