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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing... that is a friend who cares.

— Henri Nouwen

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I am deeply convinced that the Christian leader of the future is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in this world with nothing to offer but his or her own vulnerable self.

In the Name of Jesus (1989)

We often confuse unconditional love with unconditional approval.

Bread For the Journey (1996)

Prayer is not a pious decoration of life but the breath of human existence.

The Wounded Healer (1972)

Fear makes us run away from each other or cling to each other but does not create true intimacy.

When we walk in the Lord's presence, everything we see, hear, touch, or taste reminds us of Him. This is what is meant by a prayerful life.

The Living Reminder: Service and Prayer in Memory of Jesus Christ (1977)

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