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One seeks to make the loved one entirely happy, or, if that cannot be, entirely wretched.

— Jean de La Bruyère Les Caractères (1688)

L'on veut faire tout le bonheur, ou si cela ne se peut ainsi, tout le malheur de ce qu'on aime.

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