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The mother can feel herself the center of attention, for her child's eyes follow her everywhere. A child cannot run away from her as her own mother once did.

— Alice Miller Prisoners of Childhood / The Drama of the Gifted Child (1981)

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Clinging uncritically to traditional ideas and beliefs often serves to obscure or deny real facts of our life history.

Prisoners of Childhood / The Drama of the Gifted Child (1981)

A genuine relationship is possible only if both partners can admit their feelings, experience them and communicate them to each other without fear.

The Body Never Lies (2005)

When our children can consciously experience their early helplessness and rage, they will no longer need to ward off these feelings, in turn, with the exercise of power over others.

Prisoners of Childhood / The Drama of the Gifted Child (1981)

Those children who are beaten will in turn give beatings, those who are intimidated will be intimidating, those who are humiliated will impose humiliation, and those whose souls are murdered will murder.

Parents are indeed capable of routinely torturing their children without anyone interceding.

Breaking Down the Wall of Silence (1991)

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