495 quotes
We cannot think of dads as being nurturing if we think of men as being self-serving.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)
Love doesn’t eliminate defensiveness, because love creates vulnerability, and defensiveness is vulnerability’s mask.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
We can decrease abuse and murder when we get that for both sexes, abuse does not derive from power, but powerlessness.
The Myth of Male Power (1993)
We do not yet understand that when we neglect men, we rape women.
The Myth of Male Power (1993)
Divorces led to bodies of men (called legislatures) protecting women collectively as other men (called husbands) failed to protect women individually.
The Myth of Male Power (1993)
Women’s vulnerability confessing their desire to see men as a success object is matched by men’s confession of compulsiveness of sexual desire for women.
Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988)
There is little life where no one will listen. These are fathers, sons and families who are needlessly lost.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)
The challenge is shifting our appreciation: being willing to give up some of dad’s money for more of dad’s love. And, in the process, altering the psyche that makes him lovable.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)
Father absence is not just correlated with negative outcomes but actually causes negative outcomes.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
Employers are NOT prohibited from practicing sex discrimination in hiring and promoting employees.
The Myth of Male Power (1993)
The discipline of postponing gratification is the single most important discipline your son needs.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
Implicit in the Hollywood formula of mom-by-option and dad-by-default is mom never at fault...to a fault.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)
Not one daughter who had a good relationship with her biological father had a baby before the age of nineteen.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
If we get more of what we pay for, then let’s pay to get more dads, rather than pay more when dads are absent.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
“My mom warns and warns; it’s like she ‘cries wolf.’ My dad gives us one warning, and then he becomes the wolf.”
The Boy Crisis (2018)
Our choice of partners is one of the clearest statements about our choice of values.
Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988)
Teaching children to debate without teaching children to listen is divorce training.
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)
The women who were best able to grow spiritually and psychologically had married men who were the least able to grow.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
If our binoculars search for our partner’s best intent, it will usually be found.
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)
To date, our prison debate has focused on rehabilitation versus incarceration, rather than prevention versus imprisonment.
The Boy Crisis (2018)