495 quotes
Preserving the best of traditional masculinity should be a priority of parents because your son is preoccupied with the paradox of learning how to simultaneously fit in and stand out.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
Both bullies and the bullied have three things in common: both come from negative family, school, and community environments; both have low self-esteem; and both have poor social skills.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
When women's consciousness was raised, women ended up seeing housework as their shit work ; when men's consciousness is raised, risking sexual rejection will be seen as the male shit work .
Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988)
Between fifteen and nineteen, boys commit suicide at four times the rate of girls; and between twenty and twenty-four, the rate of male suicide is between five and six times that of females.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
Both parents’ rights must exist primarily to assist the parents in fulfilling their responsibilities. Primarily does not mean exclusively.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)
A person working 45 hours per week averages 44% more income than someone working 40 hours per week. That’s 44% more income for 13% more time.
Why Men Earn More (2005)
We are the offspring of approval-seekers. We want approval so badly that we vacillate between conforming to get it and standing out (being outstanding) to get it.
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)
Working from home requires self-starting. And children raised with poor boundary enforcement rarely master the postponed gratification that self-starting requires.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
There are 25 differences in the way women and men behave in the workplace. These 25 differences lead to men receiving higher pay and women having better lives—or at least more balanced lives.
Why Men Earn More (2005)
We have forgotten that before we began calling this date rape and date fraud, we called it exciting.
The Myth of Male Power (1993)
When the National Association of Social Workers studies suicide, they study only female suicide.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
After divorce, women’s biggest fear is economic deprivation; men’s biggest fear is emotional deprivation.
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)
70 percent of child support debt is owed by parents with incomes of less than $10,000 per year
The Boy Crisis (2018)
By attending to the conscious part of ourselves, we contribute to the peace of others as well as ourselves.
Interview by Jonathan Robinson (1994)
Our focus on discrimination against women during the past 30 years has blinded us to opportunities for women.
Why Men Earn More (2005)
When I lose my larger sense of supporting people to be their best, I lessen my contact with the God inside me.
Interview by Jonathan Robinson (1994)
The male-female suicide gap in the United States has tripled since the Great Depression.
The Boy Crisis (2018)
I define power as control over one’s life. Pay is not about power. Pay is about giving up power to get the power of pay.
Why Men Earn More (2005)
Note the men’s fear that if they reported this to the authorities, not only would they not be believed, they would be ridiculed.
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)
The less our sons our trusted, the less women are able to really love them, and the more women feel entitled to use them as wallets.
Father and Child Reunion (2001)