To point out harassment is to be viewed as the harasser; to point out oppression is to be viewed as oppressive. An Affinity of Hammers (2016)
The exposure of violence is perceived by the privileged as the origin of violence. An Affinity of Hammers (2016)
Jokiness allows a constant trivializing: as if by joking someone is suspending judgment on what is being said. She didn’t mean anything by it; lighten up. A killjoy knows from experience: when people keep making light of something, something heavy is going on An Affinity of Hammers (2016)